The first date is passed and on the next one you should do everything right so as not to alienate the partner who is already interested in you. Scientists who have been studying the behavior and psychotypes of various people for a long time have identified the basic rules of behavior on a date.
Look but don't stare
The eye contact is great, even amazing. Girls love it when guys look into their eyes boldly. She is excited by such attention, she is flattered. But in everything you need to know when to stop. Use the 11-1 rule. When a girl tells you something, look at her for eleven seconds, and then look away for one second. This will show her that you are listening to her carefully, but also will not make her embarrassed.
Monkeying is not harmful
On the contrary, it is useful. Scientists in Holland have proven that mimicry can subdue the interlocutor. In short, the point is this: imitation in action helps to make it clear to the interlocutor that you are closely following him, paying attention. In short, on the same wavelength. Therefore, if the girl makes a gesture, repeat it. If you went to a cafe or restaurant and she ordered something, order the same. Just don't repeat everything. Otherwise, you run the risk of looking too feminine.
Feed her sweet
Works with men as well. When a person eats sweets, the world around him seems brighter, the mood is better, and the little things are not so nasty. If you have any irregularities in character or appearance, order a cake or a piece of cake on a date. Thanks to endorphin, the hormone of joy that is produced when a person swallows sweets bite after bite.
Legs as an indicator
Take your eyes off her face at least a couple of times and look at her legs. If they are looking at you with their socks, then breathe a sigh of relief. If not, start worrying. Since the legs are too far from the head, they are difficult to control. And sometimes the socks of the feet are truer than the words and facial expressions. Sounds crazy, but it works.
