Unfortunately, people often hear lies: frank or disguised. Sometimes strangers lie, sometimes those they barely know. It hurts most when a loved one cheats. Knowing a few facts, how you can recognize a lie, you will be able to minimize the number of deceptions in your address.
Instructions
Step 1
Pay attention to how the person is speaking. The speech of the one who deceives can be saturated with a huge number of facts that are not directly related to the topic of conversation. By giving meaningless details, they want to make you believe in what is being said.
Step 2
If a person repeats your question before answering, this indicates that he wants to buy time. He needs it in order to come up with a "plausible" answer to the question asked.
Step 3
Regular laughing off, instead of a direct answer, regard it as an attempt to hide reliable information and an unwillingness to tell you the truth.
Step 4
Pay attention to how the voice sounds. Usually, people who cheat have it sounds higher and louder than usual, and speech speeds up. The body itself can tell a lot too. The one who lies has arms and legs crossed on their own. Most often this is an uncontrollable phenomenon. The person who cheats has practically no gestures. He keeps her in check. Once he starts gesticulating, it will be difficult for him to keep lying.
Step 5
For a person who cheats, emotions appear with a certain delay. This is due to the fact that he is focused on his own and only superficially follows the conversation.
Step 6
If you suspect a person is lying, look at him directly and firmly declare that you doubt the sincerity of what was said. Or, ironically react to what you heard and try to interrupt the dialogue several times with unexpected questions. Such actions will help to understand the sincerity of a person, and you will be able to more confidently identify the fact of a lie.
Step 7
Another hallmark of a lying person is that when talking to you, he touches his nose or face too often. Also, frequent coughing, looking to the side, indicates deception. The person feels uneasy about deceiving you. And in this way he tries to occupy his hands and pass the time in order to figure out how to do it more believably.
Step 8
The deceiving woman fusses very much, straightens her clothes all the time and shakes off the specks of dust that are visible only to her. Suddenly, in the middle of a conversation, he may start to preen, touching up his hair or makeup.
Step 9
A man, when he is cheating, can scratch his nose, touch his face all the time, open his mouth, or, conversely, tighten his lips tightly. There is excitement and tension in speech, the tone of the voice can change abruptly for no apparent reason. Often a deceiving man stumbles on the spot, or makes some backward movements, as if trying to hide.
