The ability to build communication in such a way that your interlocutor is comfortable and calm can be brought up in yourself. To become a delicate person, you need to learn to understand others, avoid sharp corners in relationships and bring positive to people.
Instructions
Step 1
Think about other people. Try not to hurt their interests. Be polite and considerate with those around you. Don't act as if you are the center of the universe. Sometimes people give others a lot of anxiety and discomfort due to their inability to control themselves. Imagine how others see you from the side. If the picture is not very attractive, it's time to change something in yourself.
Step 2
You do not need to be actively interested in the affairs of other people that do not concern you. Some people are very annoying and persistently ask others about things that they are clearly not ready to share. It is also important to learn how to keep other people's secrets. When a person trusts you with some secret information, it should remain strictly between you. Don't be a gossip and talker. Control your excessive curiosity and passion for sensations.
Step 3
Treat people decently. There are individuals who do not think about the feelings of others. They can use others for their own purposes, manipulate them and try to assert themselves at someone else's expense. Naturally, such persons cannot be called delicate. Never use your advantage to insult or humiliate another. Do not put pressure on people, do not allow yourself to be rude and boorish behavior. Be a pleasant person to talk to. Talk to everyone on an equal footing, whether it is your subordinate, a waiter or a child. Show respect for everyone.
Step 4
Don't tell people about their mistakes and shortcomings. Be generous. Do not put the person in an uncomfortable position if he has committed some kind of offense in front of your eyes. You should not criticize someone, scold. If some person has made a mistake, it is not sweet even without your moral teachings, it is not necessary to finish off the person. Sometimes it is better to remain silent so that the person next to you is comfortable. Do not correct others' reservations, do not laugh at someone's oversight.
Step 5
Respect other people's dreams and plans. Don't take away people's enthusiasm with your sarcastic remarks, ridicule, or tricky questions. Inspire others and help them believe in their own strength. Your kindness and support will greatly help them in some endeavor. Thank people for any favor, compliment them. Spread an atmosphere of optimism and goodwill around. Try to always be attentive to people, do not dismiss them, even if you are very busy at the moment.
