Having met your soul mate, it seems that love will be eternal. At first, there is not even a thought that something may go wrong, that feelings may be clouded in the future by everyday problems. Love is blind and this does not make it possible to immediately recognize all the shortcomings of a partner. Time passes, and it becomes more difficult to resist disagreements and disappointment in love.
Necessary
Patience, common sense
Instructions
Step 1
It's time to learn to speak the same language with your significant other. Quite often, after another quarrel, people disperse in different corners and think about the injustice of their chosen one. A serious conversation is much more effective than a stormy showdown, because you can calmly explain to your partner the essence of the problem and resolve the conflict in a peaceful way. Discussing all problems together will help to resist love. After all, if you do not resolve an exciting issue now, it will emerge later and everything will again end with insults, unfair condemnation. Better not to waste time and delay the conversation.
Step 2
It is contraindicated to beat on pride. If the other half does not act like everyone else in a certain situation, this does not at all mean that the person is abnormal or outdated, it just has his own point of view and an extraordinary solution to eliminate the problem. Most likely, it is this trait of a loved one that attracts most of all.
Don't make empty promises. If a decision is made and announced publicly, there is no need to change it, this can lead to mistrust and the chosen one will stop taking seriously everything you say.
Step 3
You need to feel sorry for each other, sympathize, but not appeal to pity. You should not constantly ask for something and blackmail. It will not be possible to resist love according to the principle: you - me, and I - you. Threats also do not lead to understanding, they can only achieve the manifestation of a negative attitude towards oneself. There are no ideal people, so you always have to put up with minor flaws, without which existence is simply impossible and adapt to each other.
In love it is not possible only to "take", a loved one always expects a return, fulfillment of his requests and attention to his person. To live together happily ever after, you need to protect your relationship.
