If you are in captivity of new feelings, and all your thoughts are hovering around your loved one, you smile at all passers-by, you can be diagnosed with falling in love, or maybe a more serious disease - love.
As follows from the explanatory dictionary of the Russian language, "falling in love" is a complex of positive feelings directed at another person. According to psychologists practicing in this area, falling in love is characterized by a narrowing of consciousness, which may result in a distorted assessment of the object of adoration and reality in general.
Love is a deep feeling of affection for another person, great sympathy. Love begins to live with love. But what the feeling that has taken possession of you will turn into - love or another disappointment, depends on you and your partner, on relationships, on your perception of the world, the level of culture, the ability to concede to each other somewhere, somewhere worthy to defend your position and from many other factors.
The difference between feelings
The difference between these feelings is that falling in love is a fragile embryo of love. You are in love, and you want to spend more time with your loved one. You have an enthusiastic attitude towards everything around you and there is a desire to be happy with the object of your love.
Love is a deeper, already hardened feeling, when for the sake of a loved one you can sacrifice your interests.
During love, you will not think about your own happiness, but about the happiness of your partner.
Practical advice for lovers
As a rule, the feeling of falling in love and love promotes the production of endocrine glands of hormones such as endorphins, which are also called hormones of happiness. Your airy mood is determined by the production of endorphins. Lovers and lovers want to be better and more successful. Lovers do better, so make the most of your hidden and suddenly awakened talents. Create, learn and master something new and enjoy the results of your work.
The mistake of many girls is that when they fall in love, they abandon their interests and activities that were important to them before meeting their beloved. In no case should you do the following. After all, it is possible that a person drew attention to you thanks to this zest, dissimilarity from others, enthusiasm for some kind of activity.
In addition, an exciting activity will allow you not to attribute any invented qualities to your loved one. Lovers constantly think about the object of their love, and this is normal.
However, after some time, if the absence of these very qualities is revealed, you will have to be offended and angry solely with yourself.
Studying and working will help to extend the joy of communication, expectation and knowledge of the important person in your life for a longer time. That is, with a certain amount of employment, it is possible to extend the bouquet-candy period, pleasant for any girl, for a longer period.
