Violence surrounds us. It penetrates into our lives from TV screens, from the Internet and newspapers. There is violence in many families, at work, on the streets of your city, etc. Today we will talk about school violence, which is increasingly mentioned in the media. Children, inspired by the example of adults, begin to terrorize weaker students, giving rise to resentment for the whole world in their hearts.
Instructions
Step 1
Recently, cases of violence at school have increased. At the same time, it very rarely happens when such facts float out, most often children simply accumulate all the insults inflicted on them within the walls of an educational institution. And why talk, if even the children do not believe in the ability of their parents to end this nightmare.
Step 2
Worst of all, many parents simply do not take their children's problem seriously. Some believe that these are just childish pranks that will soon pass. Others try to instill in their son the desire for victory, courage and the ability to stand up for themselves. And the third does not have enough time at all for their child.
Step 3
In order to get rid of violence at school, it is necessary to instill in the child trust in his parents from the very beginning. It is necessary to ensure that your son or daughter can come and tell about all the things that disturb him. Let it seem petty and insignificant to you, but … But you must remember that the child lives in his own tiny world, in which even small problems become a big grief.
Step 4
The indifferent attitude of parents can significantly undermine the child's psyche, self-confidence, etc. It is also worth forgetting forever about the very strong guardianship, which turns the child into a "nurse", because he is left without a loving mother at school, alone with his peers and older students. When a child commits a minor offense, you should not use too strong words (for example, worthless, stupid, etc.), otherwise he will lose faith in himself and easily become a victim of school fights.
Step 5
Keep in mind, however, that emotionally stronger children can harbor deep resentment toward their parents. Unable to attract their attention and get even a drop of love, they begin to terrorize weaker students, thereby proving their superiority.
Step 6
And remember one simple thing - you can get rid of violence only by believing in the strength of your child and making him believe in it. Do not try to make a scandal at school or a showdown with other students. Of course, you are an adult, and any high school student will look like an innocent lamb after a good thrashing. But soon you will leave again, and your baby will have to solve new more serious problems alone …
