Anyone knows that it is much easier to live with a sense of humor. It has a positive effect on mental health, allows you to get out of the most difficult situation without any problems, and helps to improve relationships with people around you. But the problem is that the sense of humor is not inherited from parents. He needs to be educated and developed in himself. And you need to start this as early as possible.
Instructions
Step 1
There are two kinds of sense of humor: inward and outward. The first - allows a person to find positive moments in everyday life, even in the most difficult situations, this is the ability to laugh at their mistakes. The second is the ability to joke. When trying to develop a sense of humor, people usually try to learn to joke. And this is wrong, because without the ability to see the positive in everyday life and the ability to laugh at yourself, you can hardly do without.
Step 2
First you need to love life itself. You can cope with this on your own, and if it does not work out, then with the help of a competent teacher. You should not take lessons from people with extensive life experience. A five-year-old who can laugh without any reason is best suited for the teacher role.
Step 3
Try to stop taking yourself too seriously, and don't be afraid to be funny. Even though all your experience of previous years will oppose this. Find funny features in yourself, ask relatives or friends, in no case do not be offended by the answers received.
Step 4
Try to remember all the awkward situations you have experienced. Look at your behavior from the outside, laugh kindly. Once you can master this skill, you will stop paying attention to mistakes and will constantly move forward. In addition, laughing at your failure can visibly defuse the situation if you accidentally hit another person.
Step 5
Remember that other parameters are necessary to develop a sense of humor, for example, a large vocabulary, erudition, the ability to clearly express your thoughts, acting, and so on.
Step 6
Vocabulary will allow you to masterfully play with words. For example, the technique of using homonyms (words that are similar in pronunciation, but different in meaning) is very common.
Step 7
Erudition will allow you to move away from standard jokes and make your humor more sophisticated.
Step 8
It happens, even though the joke is very funny, none of the people around him laughed. And the problem is that it still needs to be presented correctly. Developing acting skills will allow you to make even the most serious audience laugh.
