Purposefulness is the desire of a person to achieve an intended goal. As a rule, such people do not stop there, they always go forward, becoming successful. They occupy leadership positions, while being leaders, have a clear mind and always know what they want. Unfortunately, this quality is not inherent in all people, but it is possible and even necessary to develop purposefulness.
Instructions
Step 1
Be clear about what you want to achieve. To do this, formulate a goal. Then ask yourself the question “Why do I need to achieve this? What will it give me?"
Step 2
Collect your thoughts. Think carefully about the entire plan for achieving the goal, imagine all possible paths and difficulties. You can even schedule the time that you will spend on a daily basis to solve the task at hand. To do this, start an organizer so as not to go astray. Schedule all the time clearly.
Step 3
Believe in yourself, otherwise your goal will remain forever unattainable. Even if there are difficulties on the way, do not hang your nose and do not take a step back, go forward and only forward! Avoid excessive self-criticism. Remember that all people can make mistakes and you are no exception. Do not give up after stumbling once.
Step 4
If you are lazy, fight laziness with all your might, it is this feeling that can knock you off your intended plan. Gather all your strength and energy, direct them in one direction. Think constantly about the result. Avoid negative clashes, verbal skirmishes, that is, anything that can unsettle you.
Step 5
If you are on the verge of failure, remember the goal, imagine the result of the work. Be persistent, patient, and diligent.
Step 6
Train your willpower to become a purposeful person. To do this, do what you do not want, against which your inner "I" protests. Challenge yourself to the test, compete with yourself.
Step 7
Tune in to work. To do this, you can split one large goal into several smaller ones. After achieving each of them, take the habit of praising yourself, encouraging, for example, eating your favorite cake or watching your favorite (or new sensational) movie.
Step 8
In no case do not follow the lead of others. Remember that you are trying for yourself, not for the sake of others. This is your goal, not theirs. Let them have theirs. Don't listen to those who doubt your success.
