The mysterious word "charisma" is rooted in ancient Olympus, the inhabitants of which interpreted it as a rare "gift of the gods", endowing with inexplicable power to attract human attention to themselves. In ancient Greek mythology, charites are three beneficent goddesses of the joy of life and fun, personifying attractiveness, grace, grace, embodying good. Paradoxically, charisma is not only about virtues. Great prophets and absolute "do not care", politicians and actors, saints and criminals are equally attractive.
Instructions
Step 1
To begin with, remember the axiom: you become charismatic, not born. Work on yourself, develop the talents inherent in nature, in a word, work tirelessly to create your charisma.
Step 2
Strive systematically for vigorous activity. People with charismatic potential cannot live without hobbies. They go to conquer the inaccessible mountains and the depths of the sea, study in dance groups. They are always ready for bold and desperate actions that seem outrageous to others. Sometimes it seems that they are about to sell the house and give up living on the Solomon Islands. They know about everyone "everything" and "everything" who is who. Easily navigate the masterpieces of world cinema. Out of nowhere, they have stacks of photographs with images of stars, endorsed by their autographs.
Step 3
If you want to see yourself in the ranks of charismatics, do not be afraid to try, experiment. Choose the most interesting activities that have just climbed to the peak of fashion. Strive to fulfill all childhood dreams. This approach guarantees you hundreds of new acquaintances, boundless admiration and genuine interest of old and new acquaintances.
Step 4
Be creative. Creativity should be your second self. Look for creative solutions to any problems, non-standard solutions to any problems … This is the spark of God and the gift of the gods, inherent in you since childhood, and unfortunately, fading away in maturity, because you stop keeping and developing it. It's a pity. Indeed, it is the child's sincerity and spontaneity, the ability to see the world through the eyes of childhood, that is an important quality of charisma.
Step 5
Never be discouraged. Of course, it is not at all necessary to fly around the office with an endless smile on your lips. Just use your cheerfulness for the good of people. Help them in difficult moments, charge others with good mood and positive. Learn to think positively, to look for something good in problems without overestimating difficulties. It appeals to people.
Step 6
Remember the taboo of a charismatic: learn to persuade, learn to listen, do not give advice, do not express superiority, do not make comments, do not make others look funny, do not look for other people's mistakes, do not prove to people that they are wrong.
Step 7
Be absolutely sure of yourself - this is the key commandment of the charismatic. Remember that people who are isolated in their world, focusing on their complexes and their "imperfection", will never become the "light in the window", the center of attention.
