There are no perfect people, the question of ideals and standards regarding appearance is also controversial. The goal of human life is not to reshape oneself according to certain templates, but to find spiritual harmony.
All people are imperfect. In modern society, a certain ideal of a person reigns, both from a psychological and physical point of view. Because of this, it is difficult for an individual to accept himself as he is. This is especially true for adolescents and young people. It is important to understand one thing here, that all people are unique, each has its own flavor. It is important to focus on the merits, and the flaws can be skillfully masked.
Why be the standard person in the crowd when you have the opportunity to be unique.
Work on yourself
If you are dissatisfied with your appearance, character, timbre of voice, etc., then you can work on yourself to achieve the ideal. Of course, a person will not change much, but he will receive psychological satisfaction from the fact that he has approached the ideal.
Taking a critical look at beauty patterns
Sometimes fashion trends are very absurd, you should not take them as common truths. It is better to be imperfect, unfashionable, but healthy spiritually and physically than a twitchy victim of fashion.
Psychological trainings
Psychological work on yourself is one of the best ways to find harmony with yourself and the world around you.
External data is very important, but they fade into the background when you start to communicate with a person more closely. It is necessary to understand that beauty is not yet a guarantee of success in life.
