Getting older doesn't mean getting old. Once you understand this, you can accept your age.
The famous Coco Chanel said: "Every woman has the age that she deserves." How to learn not to be sad on your birthday and look in the mirror without regret?
Every year a person gets older - this is obvious. But at the same time, we all perceive age differently - both our own and someone else's. Let's remember how in the first grade high school girls seemed to us adults, and twenty-year-olds - aunties. In the same way, at 80 years old, you will begin to tell your grandchildren that at 60 you were very much even nothing.
But in the life of every woman there are critical periods when the inexorable passage of time is felt most acutely. How can you survive them?
First fears: 25-27 years
The appearance of the first wrinkles and a few gray hairs often plunges their owners into real depression. Girls rush to study information about cosmetic procedures and buy creams that will help them stop time. And some even run to a plastic surgeon demanding a facelift!
No need to panic: negative emotions are bad for your appearance! When we are worried about something, we constantly frown, which is why mimic wrinkles are formed. From strong experiences, sleep problems arise, which means that circles under the eyes appear. And some begin to eat without stopping - and spoil their figure.
Remember: unnatural fullness, an unhealthy complexion and a frown throws a girl over the years. So do not fill your head with bad thoughts - old age is still far away. And there is no need to engage in amateur performances, trying to preserve their youth in inappropriate ways. It is better to contact a beautician - he will tell you what means to use at this age.
Stay up to date with fashion trends, new movies and music. Get interested in technical developments - gadgets, mobile apps. Go to discos, do popular sports - diving, downhill skiing. Falling out of the rhythm of modern life turns the girl into a pretty one, but … aunt.
After 35 years
Closer to the age of 40, unpleasant emotions are added to women's experiences due to changing appearance due to fading male attention. Even if young people jump out of their seats in transport, it is not at all in order to impress with their good manners and get to know each other. And simply because they were taught to give way to their elders.
In the fight against age, some women go to extreme measures, which does them more harm than good. If a mature woman puts on a radical mini and behaves like a naive, frivolous girl, and even makes eyes at young men, then this not only does not make her young, but also causes ridicule of those around her.
Do you want to look at your reflection without fear or skepticism? First of all, forget about laziness. Now you need to devote much more time to your appearance. Moreover, every day and in all directions - make-up, hairstyle, physical form.
Try to exclude poorly made, shapeless clothes in boring colors from your wardrobe. Have a few stylish and expensive items in your closet instead of a dozen cheap ones. And it's not about fashion, but about perception. A well-dressed woman feels much more confident and attracts the looks of others, including men.
Each age has its own advantages. Female sexuality, for example, is revealed only by the age of 35. Many men know about this, so they choose experienced and sensual partners.
Only with age do women begin to value relationships for the sake of the relationship itself. We stop demanding constant attention and admiration from our husbands and allow them to feel more free and independent. Men like this approach more than the inconstancy and infantilism inherent in youth.
Remember the main thing: sighing about a departed youth is a useless and even harmful activity, because it makes you feel unhappy. You need to learn to live in harmony with yourself - and age will cease to scare you. And those around you will perceive you the way you want it.
After 40, life is just beginning
According to statistics, every third child in European countries gives birth to women aged 38 to 42 years.
32% of Europeans admitted that at the age of 39-45 they literally fell in love without memory - they did not experience such a strong feeling even in their youth; and 19% of them ended up with a wedding.
56% of Russians agree that it was by the age of 40 that their desires finally began to coincide with their capabilities.
Over the past decades, the image of a forty-year-old person has changed dramatically: today men and women look and feel much younger than their peers 30 years ago.
