Everyone has difficult situations, difficult times. We still experience them all the same, we go through them, but why do some endure difficulties more easily than others? What is their secret? Most likely in the way of thinking and in relation to life. Experts have researched many people who have gone through difficult times, and have deduced several rules that these people followed.
Here are the rules. It is best to print this text and keep it handy so you can quickly read it when needed.
So, the "lucky ones" treat all problems like this:
- They Yes, they do everything to change the situation, but internally they do not protest. What is the use of confronting circumstances if a huge space is sending them to you? This is his lesson to be taken. And do everything to change the situation, but calmly and with dignity. Because a dissatisfied and opposing person is not calm, which means that he cannot make adequate decisions. Therefore, in any situation, it is better to let go of the negative than to suffer and feel sorry for yourself. It definitely won't help. There is Buddhist wisdom that says that a person's suffering is caused by his resistance to what is happening. It means: if you do not resist, there is no suffering either.
- They They call it a problem to be solved. As soon as a person thinks that he has a serious problem, he begins to experience negativity. And this interferes with solving the problem and does not make it clear what the situation teaches. This means that next time a person will face the same problem again. We live in direct connection with the space, which constantly gives us lessons. And if some lesson is not passed, it will be given over and over again until the person passes it. Therefore, it is better to react correctly the first time.
- They And then everything around them changes. The faster internal changes take place, the faster their life becomes harmonious. Yes, this is not a simple process: you have to engage in introspection, admit your mistakes, consult with others and ask for help in understanding and understanding yourself. But this work pays off handsomely. From experience, the more perfect they became, the more benevolent the world, people, fate became to them. Because the processes taking place around us are an exact reflection of the processes taking place inside us. This is a direct relationship. Therefore, before blaming life, look at yourself and soberly assess your qualities, your character and your attitude to the world. Your life is a mirror of your inner world that cannot be deceived by external masks.
- They are. And there are events that should have happened according to the Boomerang Law. It's just that once you released the negative into space, and now it has returned to you. You may not remember this anymore, but space remembers everything and brings everything back. So just “get it and sign it” and accept it as it is. Better yet, thank you sincerely for the lesson.
- They are. And they believe that if he was not hired for this job, it means that he will definitely come even better. Because the space does not feel sorry for the good for us, we just need to believe in it. And also believe that everything is happening as it should. This is real wisdom.
- They, because this will not happen in their lives, will not happen again. It is in this moment that there is something valuable that cannot be missed - because it is given to you for something by the big and wise world, which knows better what you need here and now. Therefore, it is so important to be sensitive to everything that happens and to catch the chances, hints and signs of every moment that comes.
- They compared them with their capabilities. If they have a salary of 40 thousand, they will not buy a smartphone for 45 thousand to look cooler than they really are. They are self-sufficient with such a salary and live in peace with what they have. And they will never want to buy a yacht or an airplane if they know that they cannot afford it. But they will make every effort to increase the income. But they do it calmly, without lust.
- They are. Fear is a great teacher. It can be used as an excellent sign: if you are afraid of something, then you definitely need to do it. In the book of the candidate of psychological sciences Svetlana Lada-Rus “Live without fear” there is such an expression: “Be afraid to be afraid. What are you afraid is what happens. " That is, fear is not protection, as many believe. It is a magnet for unhappiness.
- They know how to push aside problems and enjoy the little that they have - even good weather. And for this joy they attract even more positives.
- They are. If compared, then with people who are worse in life than them. Then they see how much better they are. And they rejoice at their position, focus on it. If they are overtaken by a complete collapse, they rejoice in unemployment benefits. If you don't like your appearance, they enhance your inner beauty.
- They never understand that their life is the result of their own actions, feelings and thoughts. They take responsibility for their lives and don't dump it on circumstances or people. And the one who takes responsibility sooner or later receives bonuses from the space and becomes the winner.
- They are sooner or later. Everything changes: circumstances, people, ideas, even principles. And if we are stuck in a situation, it is still not an endless state. And the sooner we start doing something, the faster change will come.
