It seems to many that circumstances are stronger than them and that it is impossible to influence the events that happen to them in life. Some of us suffer at work we do not like, live with people we do not like, communicate with those who are unpleasant to them. If you remember your acquaintances, it turns out that there are not so few of those who constantly complain about their unsettled life. To exist in harmony with the world around you, you need to arrange your life the way you like.
Instructions
Step 1
Understand that man himself is the smith of his own happiness. If something does not suit you in your life, do not waste time nagging about it and do not complain to others - take action. The world around you cannot be remade, which means that you must somewhere change your attitude towards those things that do not depend on you, and simply exclude something from your life if it does not suit you. To arrange your life is, first of all, to find comfort - mental and physical.
Step 2
You will find physical comfort if you equip your home. Instead of suffering, arrange cleaning, rearrangement, or even better - make repairs and change the design in your house, apartment, room. Make it so that when you go inside and close the doors, you feel safe and cozy, surrounded by your favorite things and books, so that you feel comfortable and warm in it.
Step 3
Think about what you personally need in order to feel happy and say that life is good. Whatever you do, it should bring you pleasure, so even if you are doing something that you do not really like, but will help you achieve your goal, do it with great desire.
Step 4
There is no unloved work - there is an inability to captivate oneself with it. Any work can be made interesting for yourself if you approach it creatively. You need a job to make money for your life, so embed it in your system of values and priorities, try to find pleasure in it. Learn and learn new things, find non-standard solutions, develop new methods. If desired, even an uninteresting lesson can be made a real testing ground for developing skills and abilities.
Step 5
Work is work, but we also spend a lot of time outside of it. Surround yourself with people with whom you will be comfortable communicating, here a lot already depends on you. Limit and minimize communication with those you dislike. You can even find real friends with whom you can discuss all pressing problems and get advice and support on the Internet.
Step 6
Learn to enjoy communicating with yourself, with friends, with nature, even just with strangers. Fill your life with meaning, enjoy it, arrange it the way you want - and peace of mind will be provided.
