The main institution for raising a child is the family. What a child acquires in the family in infancy and adolescence, he remembers, acquires and applies throughout his entire subsequent life.
In the process of upbringing, parents can put forward a number of requirements for their child, which is even a necessary condition for upbringing. However, the child can have a negative impact if the fulfillment of the requirements is achieved by screaming, threats, violence. In this case, the parents will never achieve their goal, but will only set the child against themselves, his behavior will also become aggressive towards adults. In any case, the interests and opinions in a particular situation should be taken into account.
In acting in the direction of democratic education, one should also be careful not to overdo it. Parents can take care of their children, protecting them from problems and taking everything upon themselves. Thus, the process of formation of the child's personality slows down, the satisfaction of the child's needs comes to the fore. Ultimately, the child will not be ready for adulthood, it will be difficult for him to solve problems on his own, since before that everything was decided for him by his parents. Teens who are raised this way have the most breakdowns in their teens.
To raise a child correctly, you need to take into account many factors and nuances, but these tips must be taken into account in any case:
1) respect for the opinion of the child;
2) equal treatment of the child in the family;
3) the availability of time in order to listen to the child, give him advice, help in solving the problem;
4) raising a child in a democratic way (not to violence against him, not to threaten him).
In any situation, you need to find the right approach to the child, be fair and loving parents who are interested in raising a decent personality.
