At first glance, a family where the husband is a tyrant seems exemplary. They seem to have stepped out of an advertising poster: everyone is smiling and happy, the house is cozy and tidy, and there is mutual understanding and prosperity in the family. Everything in the house is in its place, and the wife and children feel like they are behind a "stone wall." Only very close friends and relatives guess how things really are. There are three types of modern tyrant husband.
Portrait # 1: Cleanliness
This man loves order in everything. Perfect cleanliness and exemplary order reign in his house. True, the wife should clean up, meekly obeying orders. Despotism in the family here is like in the army - no objections are accepted. He will always find something to complain about.
In the company of friends, such a man is often cheerful and sociable, but at home he turns into a silent, serious and eternally dissatisfied boss. He simply cannot behave as equals in the family. A wife for him is a dumb slave who must be good at following his instructions. These particular manifestations of despotism make the family members of this person despondent and depressed.
Such men love to go shopping with their wives, because any thing must be bought under his vigilant control.
The wife of such a person is a weak-willed creature, she is tired and depressed. Children with such a father also have a hard time. He always makes them remarks: "do not run", "do not play around", "you can not", "you will manage". This type of domestic tyrant believes that the offspring should be brought up in strictness and without excesses. In the family of such a tyrant, physical violence takes place.
Portrait # 2: Narcissistic
Such a tyrant will not beat anyone. The narcissistic despot simply does not need this - he is above this commonplace. This man is simply fixated on his own person. He is generally attractive and smart.
He sincerely believes that his interests are simply unattainable for understanding by simple estimates, i.e. wife and children. These men build their relationships in the family in such a way that those around them begin to really obey them. The narcissistic tyrant builds a wall around himself, outsiders are strictly prohibited from entering his world. This person will not stoop to primitive scandals, he will simply show his contempt and will behave detached and independent.
Narcissistic tyrants love to be ill. They constantly listen to themselves, to their health. Such a man can talk for hours about his illnesses, but they are very annoyed when someone from the household suddenly really gets sick. This causes him discomfort and irritation. In his family, no one should be sick, especially his wife.
Such family tyrants are useless in everyday life. They don't stoop to do housework. They prefer not to pay attention to burned out light bulbs or a leaking tap.
Such men are cool to their children. Their children are usually very quiet and obedient. The wife should educate their offspring so that they do not bother the pope and do not distract him from narcissism.
In sex, such a tyrant only cares about his pleasure. He doesn't care about his wife's feelings. He tries only for himself.
Portrait # 3: Submissive Slave
The most unpredictable type of tyrant. In this psychological type, a slave in love and a cruel despot get along at the same time.
He is completely focused on the desires of his spouse. For him, the purpose of life is to satisfy all her needs. True, only those desires that, in his opinion, are considered really important.
The wife of a submissive slave will never be independent. She is completely surrounded by his attention, she simply does not have freedom of choice.
Such men suffer from frequent mood swings. They are prone to prolonged periods of depression. They often even threaten to commit suicide, although they almost never implement these threats.
Everyone around him will know about his love for his wife. Children in such a family will become the main instrument of psychological influence. Dad will always remind his children how much he loves their mother, and will try to create the image of an ideal parent in their eyes. This kind of tyranny is extremely detrimental to the mental and emotional health of the family and friends of this person.
This is the worst kind of family tyranny. Such a man is extremely unpredictable, he is able to turn his woman into an eternally repentant and guilty creature, literally terrorize her with his continuous psychological pressure.
