Most often, the term "reeducate" is used when it comes to a person who leads an asocial lifestyle. Both ordinary people at the household level and specialist psychologists, sociologists, and teachers (when it comes to children) are engaged in solving this problem.
Instructions
Step 1
Human re-education is a complex psychosocial process driven by motivation. If you decide to re-educate a person, then you must motivate him to change for the better. But one influence from the outside will not be enough for a positive result. A person must himself feel the need for change.
Step 2
If an individual leads a destructive lifestyle, then sooner or later he will have problems, which, with the continued manner of behavior, will grow like a snowball. It is at this moment that you must intensify your transformational activity.
Step 3
Explain to the person that he has a way out, that there are people who are ready to help him. Do not put any conditions on him, do not ask for anything in return. At this stage, you must establish a friendly, trusting relationship.
Step 4
If you manage to help him in overcoming difficulties, then your authority in the eyes of this person will increase. Now pay special attention to the unity of your beliefs and actions. After all, if a person teaching the rules of the road crosses the street at a red light during non-working hours, and the students accidentally see this, then the efficiency of his work will drop to zero. Pupils will stop believing the teacher because he himself does not believe in what he teaches.
Step 5
If you demonstrate confidence in your beliefs, apply them and achieve success, then the person you want to re-educate will think and one day ask you for advice. Only now you can give him certain recommendations. Avoid the phrase “you should” by replacing it with “you can do this”. And so that a person does not have the opinion that he is being taught about life, use the phrase "I would do this …" and outline everything that he needs to do.
Step 6
When, under your careful guidance, the behavior of your ward begins to change, "old friends" will inevitably turn away from him. This is a rather painful moment, and here you have to show that your real friend is you.
Step 7
Thus, the re-education of a person takes place hidden and in stages, unnoticed by him. Remember that through threats and punitive measures you can only change a person's behavior for a short time, but the worldview can only be done through persuasion and a positive example.
