Re-educating a man is within the power of every woman. Think about natural cunning - it will help you find answers to all questions and intuitive solutions to the most difficult problems. Act gradually and purposefully.
Instructions
Step 1
Men, as a strong half of humanity, do not like persistent requests bordering on orders. And they are completely unbearable for them to look at women's tantrums. Maybe this will guide someone on the right path, but there are times when actions "head-on" are useless.
Step 2
Roundabout methods of man's upbringing begin with the phrase "as you want." Try to convince him that he makes the decision. For example, you want him to change jobs for a higher-paying job. The statement, "You must quit this job" is incorrect. Better a conversation, the meaning of which would be: "We both know that you deserve a better place, where would you like to go?" Further, unobtrusively your options.
Step 3
Try to win over to your side by affection, yell or leave, you always have time. Go deep into his arguments, think over each phrase. Prepare your speech. Avoid problematic topics in front of strangers, discuss them in private. Always speak calmly.
Step 4
Create an atmosphere where your man will have a hard time rejecting you. Delicious dinner, gentle hugs, long caresses.
Step 5
Look into your man's eyes with thoughts of what you will do for him in bed if he changes for you. Any petty request under such a glance will be fulfilled immediately. A special charm is that he will never understand why he said "yes", and you will not utter promises out loud, so you can imagine any, even the most insane fantasy that you hardly dare to bring to life.
Step 6
Press on the feeling of competition. Emphasize its benefits over friends and acquaintances. Cheer up your man.
Step 7
Appeal to public opinion, but in moderation.
Step 8
Lead him with leading questions to the thought you need. Let him think that he has come to this.
Step 9
Play on his feelings for you. For your smile and a happy sparkle in his eyes, he will do whatever you ask for. But do not throw tantrums, give him the right to please you on his own.
Step 10
Encourage the "right" actions of the man, do not skimp on praise and words of gratitude.