Perhaps you would like to know what happens to a relationship that lasts a long time without clear signs that the man really loves you. You would like to develop your relationship in the future, but you are not sure about his feelings for you. For a while you believe that he loves, at some point you doubt it.
Instructions
Step 1
A man can deceive in words, but his eyes will not deceive him. If he loves you, it is reflected in his look. You just look into his eyes and read love and tenderness in them. The only "but": you must not confuse a loving gaze with the gaze of a man experiencing passion. Because infatuation (falling in love) and love are not the same thing. The look of a loving man warms you with its warmth, while the look of a man in love burns you. His eyes shine as if they are devouring you. Love is warmth, passion is fire. Therefore, passion (falling in love) quickly burns out, leaving nothing but ash and pleasant memories. It is even easier to determine by the look of a man who is indifferent or has lost interest in you. He avoids looking at you, and you will not find warmth and tenderness in his gaze. Nothing but cold.
Step 2
According to the words, it is difficult to determine whether a man really loves you. The fiery words of a man in love with passion can easily be mistaken for love. Therefore, women who believe only in words are often burned. When a man assures him of his love and says that he cannot live without you, he cannot be caught in a lie. Because he can be in love and he can sincerely believe in it. Or just knows how to speak beautifully. This is especially true of Don Juans, who know very well that "a woman loves with her ears." But if so, you will feel false. Therefore, you need to trust your feelings more than words. If you talk about your love, and he is silent, this is not necessarily a sign that he does not love you. Or maybe he just doesn't know how to convey love in words. But he expresses love in deeds and in deeds, shows concern for you. Or he thinks that talking about love and showing tenderness is weakness. This is especially true of macho men.
Step 3
He wants to be with you more often and he enjoys spending time together. Although, of course, this does not mean that he will stop communicating with his friends. But still he finds a reason to go somewhere together, and in public he tries to be next to you. He likes your communication and your opinion is important to him. However, even loving couples have periods when they get tired of each other's company. Especially when they are locked in the narrow world of their relationship. Therefore, you should not reproach a man that he devotes a lot of time to friends or hobbies, or just wants to be alone a little. You both should have some kind of personal space, this is the best way not to get tired of each other.
Step 4
He is not indifferent to the people you love - parents, friends, and he tries to find a common language with them. He introduces you to his friends. But an even more sure sign that he loves you is if you are a divorced woman or a single mom, and he loves your child. Because the child is part of you. If he seeks to meet only together, perceives the child as a burden, pretends that he does not exist, or he grows cold towards you upon learning about the child - this is a sure sign that he really does not love.
Step 5
He plans your future together. If he acts as if you are each on your own (just met and fled), it looks frivolous. Unless, of course, you have been dating for a long time. Although it must be said, family is not the only form of relationship. It happens that he and she meet without living together and each living his own life. The question is whether this suits you and whether such a relationship will suit you in ten years. Separately, we can say about extramarital affairs, when a woman is a mistress. If he promises to divorce and marry you, but does not take any steps, do not flatter yourself. He is comfortable in such a situation, you are wasting time. And also the opportunity to meet a man who will love you so much that you are the only one for him.
Step 6
He loves you for who you are. Does not inspire complexes about small breasts or excess weight, but admires your petite figure or your curvaceous forms. In addition, he loves you not only for your appearance, but also loves your character. Likes to see you natural, without makeup, and also when you wake up with disheveled hair. (Just don't abuse it.)
Step 7
You just feel that he loves you. If so, you don't need any words or any other confirmation. You just feel loved and do not doubt it. But, if that were the case, you wouldn't be reading this article, right?
Step 8
Therefore, you can use another method based on intuition. Just ask him a direct question if he loves you. The main thing is not his answer, but how he behaves at the same time. Does he look away, tense, turn the question into a joke or grin, how honest he is, etc. True, this method has one drawback: men really do not like this question. They are very annoyed when a woman constantly asks "do you love me?" It can be said that this is what annoys them most of all in women. If you want to know the answer to your question, ask. But only once.
Step 9
You can find out if he loves you by his actions. Love has many definitions, because each person loves in his own way. But still, when a man loves, he shows care, tenderness, supports you and shows attention to you. This is a surer sign than words. "If you want to know a person - look at his actions." The only "but": if this is not the case, do not reproach the man that he does not pay attention to you. Moreover, you should not demand any actions from a man in relation to you. It's useless. If this is not the case, then no, you cannot make a man love with reproaches and demands. Just draw your own conclusions.
Step 10
Just like "a friend is known in trouble", a person is recognized in an extreme situation. Of course, you shouldn't arrange checks and create such a situation. But if you - God forbid, of course - find yourself in a difficult life situation, only then can you see whether a man really loves. Will he hide for the time being, will he throw in a difficult moment or substitute his strong and reliable shoulder.
