School years are not only about lessons, grades, and homework. It is at school that first love comes. Notes with confessions, meetings at breaks, anxiety and doubts about the truth of feelings take the girls' thoughts more lessons.
Instructions
Step 1
Evaluate how often the boy's gaze is directed in your direction. Having caught your oncoming glance, he hastily averts his eyes to the side and begins to be embarrassed? This is a clear sign that he sets you apart from the crowd of other girls. However, don't jump to conclusions. Perhaps he stares at you for a long time just because you yourself are staring at him all the time. Or maybe you have a ballpoint pen mark on your face.
Step 2
Observe how often you come across the object of your sympathy. A boy in love will look for an opportunity to meet with you as often as possible. In class, he will sit down so that he can see you. In physical education class she will try to get into one team. If you study in different classes, but constantly collide in the corridors at recess, he probably does it on purpose. If you go from school together, although he lives in a completely different direction, then he is looking for an excuse to just walk you home.
Step 3
Analyze his behavior. Sadly, most boys just don't know how to express their feelings in words. Pushing, tripping, throwing snowballs at them is an easier way to get attention. Some boys, even in high school, may behave this way. The main thing is not to confuse such signs of attention with ordinary aggressiveness. The realization that reciprocity from a woman is much easier to achieve with compliments and gifts than pushing and offensive teasing comes to men later. And for some it does not come at all.
Step 4
Pay attention to how the boy behaves when his friends are not around. He helps you carry your backpack and talks with enthusiasm on various topics when you are alone. And in the presence of friends he laughs at you or just passes by without even looking in your direction. This means that he really likes you, but he is afraid to drop his authority in the eyes of his friends. Afraid that he will be considered uncool because of the fact that he runs after the girl.
Step 5
Take the first step towards. Perhaps in his eyes you look like an unapproachable princess and he is afraid of rejection. Ask him to help you with your homework, send your favorite melody to your phone, or rehearse a scene for a New Year's performance together. By the way he responds to your request, you can understand whether he feels sympathy. If he gladly agrees, he really wants to communicate and get to know you better. If he refuses or agrees with reluctance, you do not stand out for him in any way against the background of other girls.
