Many of us feel uncomfortable when a situation arises in which it is necessary to refuse an invitation, since the rules of etiquette on this occasion are sometimes more than vague. Especially in the case of an invitation to some particularly important event, for example, a wedding, many people prefer not to answer at all, rather than to refuse. However, even if you are forced not to go to the event, you must warn the organizers about this in advance, so as not to hurt their feelings.
It is necessary
- Sense of tact
- Respect for loved ones
Instructions
Step 1
How many times has it happened that you ignored an invitation to a friendly lunch, sent by SMS, in the hope that silence can always be blamed on a bad connection and a lost message. Only now mobile operators are becoming more reliable and soon it will not be possible to refer to such things. Therefore, show respect for the inviter - at least notify him that you have received his message.
Step 2
Don't worry about having to turn down an invitation without a good reason to do so. In this case, it is best to say: "Today I can't do it, it's a pity, but thank you very much for the invitation!" This way you don't have to make excuses, but it also shows your friends that you value them.
Step 3
Always show respect when declining an invitation. Be sure to pay attention to him. An email, text message, or social media post makes this task incredibly easy. You sent a message, but you didn't need to talk to the person face-to-face.
Step 4
Saying “yes” if you mean yes and “no” when you want to say no is important for building healthy and strong relationships with loved ones. It is on honesty that mutual understanding, trust and respect are based. Therefore, do not hesitate to decline the invitation in the event that you cannot accept it. This will definitely be appreciated, unlike the case when you just do not come without saying a word.
