Almost all activities involve interaction with other people. The skill or talent of communication can and should be developed, because a lot in this life depends on it. To communicate effectively, it is enough to know the patterns of interaction with people.
Instructions
Step 1
Useful acquaintances can be an accident, the main task is not to rush things. People don't like being used. Enough small, consistent steps to friendly relations, without imposing.
Step 2
It is not worthwhile to finally judge a person by the first meeting. Intuition is good, but constructive perception and delayed judgment are even better. The best option is to find something in common with a person.
Step 3
In the professional field, it is much easier to maintain old relationships than to create new ones. It is enough not to lose contact with promising people who can further contribute to your destiny or career. The peculiarity is that almost every person is promising. Social media makes it easier to maintain relationships.
Step 4
People tend to avoid difficult communication, if, for example, colleagues have nothing in common, then joint work may not be comfortable at first. But since people have different preferences, strengths and weaknesses, they compensate for each other, and this increases the effectiveness of the entire team. It makes sense to write down the qualities of people who annoy you and analyze the resulting list. Perhaps this will allow you to be more loyal.
Step 5
The last thing to do is to say banal things that are not interesting to anyone. Short answers to questions, hints, unusual solutions are useful for interesting communication. Boasting about professional accomplishments has never adorned anyone. A story about the field of activity and results will look much better, describing the process is almost always boring.
Step 6
A person who is moderately cheerful and cheerful will always be nicer than a gloomy and grumpy one. An exception is the presence of money, connections and unreal beauty in a grumbler, but this is quite rare.
Step 7
Have you ever come across a person who smiles because it is part of his job? Do you want to get to know such a person better? Probably not. To smile closer to people, you need to be able to create and maintain a positive attitude.
