Success to the uninitiated seems to be just a coincidence, luck caught by another person. But luck and luck are changeable, and success accompanies a person constantly. The reason is the ability to seize the moment, find positive qualities and a desire to achieve a goal.
Instructions
Step 1
Motivate yourself. If you do not like what surrounds you, then you need to change something. Realize the need for change, internal or external, by overcoming yourself and enjoying the process.
Step 2
Remember all the good things that happened to you. First, your mood and self-esteem will improve. Secondly, you will understand in what cases and after what actions you were able to achieve success.
Step 3
Transfer memories from the past to the present, associate with what is happening now.
Step 4
Write yourself a letter. State all your positive traits in it and emphasize the ability to achieve the desired goal. Convince yourself of the effectiveness of your work.
Step 5
Be philosophical about mistakes. Do not take them as a tragedy after which life ends. Consider them a valuable experience, a story of how not to act. Don't forget them, but don't worry too much. Try to fix them and not repeat them again.
Step 6
Break the goal down into stages. As you reach each stage, albeit a very small one, praise yourself: your self-esteem and self-confidence will increase, which means that success will be closer and more realistic.
