Stagnation in any area of life requires a transformation of thinking. Negative attitudes cause internal strife and contradictions. Only the ability to fall in love with life leads to positive results: the world opens up unexpected opportunities.
An unpleasant event is upsetting. If you see only the negative aspects of the current situation, it is easy to drown in the mess. It's hard to be optimistic in difficult circumstances. Knowing that perception changes reality, it remains to train thinking. Self-training plan:
1. Find the necessary positive attitude.
2. Formulate and write down an affirmation, say it daily.
3. Find the bright side in everyday problems. Situation: Spilled soup on the floor. The bright side: the floor will now be cleaned.
What are the benefits of positive attitudes?
Optimism -
The perception of the environment, friendly or hostile, determines success. Confidence in failure leads to failure. Trust in the universe, benevolence towards people and circumstances bring happiness to a new level. Even refusals, terminations, delays are sent to a better outcome of events. Of course, negative information is inevitable. In general, the universe is abundant and beautiful.
Identity -
When the actual behavior is contrary to the desired, self-esteem suffers. Self-confidence falls, a feeling of inadequacy arises. To be proud of yourself is not to brandish arrogance and complacency. On the contrary, people who exhibit such behavior hide deep insecurities. To be proud of yourself means to approve and accept yourself. This attitude announces to the world the high standards of man.
Vision-
Lack of clear understanding of the outcome will lead to frustration. Pain, mistakes, repetitive life lessons are due to unclear goals or lack of desire at all. Even when it comes to things, it is better to think in advance about the size, color, location, and sensations. Time is limited, the clock is ticking. Don't get distracted by what you don't want.
Self-sufficiency -
Rescuers help, but rarely. It is contraindicated to intervene or control someone else's life. Trying to promote always backfires. Don't let anyone control your ship. Don't try to blame anyone for something that doesn't work out. Wine is unproductive. In all situations, initially rely on your strength.
Actions -
Taking responsibility for your life, take action. Activity for the sake of activity is self-deception. Activity is characterized by productivity. Not huge steps, but all at once. One small step, then the next. Nothing will stop a person with clear vision and deep desire. Determination, willingness to do the job means that the dream has become closer.
