If your child has been diagnosed with ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder)? do not despair. By following a few simple tips, you can help him cope with unpleasant symptoms.
Hyperactivity occurs as a result of birth trauma or severe infectious diseases in infancy. But the diagnosis can be made no earlier than four to five years, if this behavior has been observed for six months.
The main symptoms of hyperactivity are:
- increased mobility;
- problems with concentration, ridiculous mistakes, forgetfulness;
- unwillingness to do homework, carry out instructions from adults;
- impulsivity, irritability;
- talkativeness.
The reason for unbearable behavior and inattention is especially the development of the child's nervous system. Punishment and abuse will not help here. Hyperactive children already have a hard time living: everything falls out of hand, adults are constantly unhappy with them, and it is impossible to find a common language with peers. The best thing you can do for your little one is to organize his life in such a way as to minimize the symptoms of the syndrome.
Help your child believe in himself. Instead of lecturing, point out his positive traits and strengths. Let him know about the existence of internal resources and try to develop them.
Organize your workspace and daily routine. Drawing up a plan, "reminders", a to-do list will help organize internal chaos and cope with forgetfulness.
Don't overwhelm your toddler with difficult tasks. This can completely discourage him from learning and helping with household chores. Take breaks every 15-20 minutes.
Do not limit your child's life to a set of strict rules for all occasions. Give him some freedom. The more inhibitions, the more the tomboy has a desire to do everything against you.
In your upbringing, try to use a carrot, not a stick. Instead of threatening punishment, offer rewards for good behavior. For example, "if you learn the poem well, we will go to the cinema in the evening."
A fidget does not need to strive to sit in one place. On the contrary, give vent to his irrepressible energy. Send him to the sports section, do joint exercises in the morning, go hiking, play outdoor games.
Hyperactive children keep their parents and educators bored. But if you show a little sensitivity and patience, you will definitely see the result.
