It's good when everything in life turns out easily and quickly, but it also happens that one failure follows another, and their number is more and more reflected in your faith in yourself and your mood. Anxious thoughts, despair and prolonged depression appear. Stop! Failure is not a sentence. You can live with them, moreover, you can use them for your own good. How? You will find out now.
Imagine that your life is a tram slowly sliding along the rails of time. You have to get off at one of the stops to get what you want, but until you reach it, just enjoy the road and look out the window. Why such a comparison? Everything is very simple. Learn to view your failures not as something horrible and the collapse of everything you only dreamed of, but just as another stop on your tram. Yes, you have arrived somewhere, you do not need to get out here, but you can be glad that you are moving towards the goal, and each subsequent stop brings you closer to it. Do not think that you are stuck in place, think that what is happening is just a stage.
Failure can teach you a lot. For example, the inventor of the light bulb, Thomas Edison, made about 200 unsuccessful attempts before coming up with the only correct way to construct it. When asked what he thought about his previous failures, he smiled and replied that he did not perceive it as 200 failures. He said that he now knew 200 ways to design a light bulb. Do the same. If you're trying unsuccessfully to make a soufflé, wind up and learn from your mistakes. One day everything will turn out perfect for you, and you will have unique experience and knowledge. Learn from your mistakes.
Who, in general, told you that what is happening to you is a failure. Maybe you are just lucky that you did not achieve what you were aiming for. The title "Miss World" can be not only honorable, but also dangerous for health and life, and the coveted position of chief accountant will not always become a tidbit for its owner. Look at things from the other side, it is quite possible that you did not get what you wanted, because it is simply not yours.
Whatever you do, learn to accept your failures and not get discouraged. Sooner or later, you will definitely succeed, because it is unsuccessful attempts that make us stronger, train the will to win and temper the spirit. Learn to treat everything philosophically and tune in to victory, only then failures from unbearable sorrows will turn into only an insignificant stage on your life path.
