For guys who are shy, impressionable by nature, communication with the fair sex can be a real problem. Even if such a young man really likes a girl, he hesitates to approach her, meet her, talk. How to get rid of this problem?
Instructions
Step 1
The young man is afraid that he looks ridiculous, that the girl will not show interest in him, will not want to communicate. In the most severe cases, such a guy is sure in advance that his attempts at courtship will not only be immediately rejected, but they will still laugh at him. To become bolder with girls, resort to self-hypnosis, try to increase your self-esteem. Repeat to yourself regularly that you have not only disadvantages, but also advantages, you have something to value for. And all the people around you (including girls) also have their flaws, but this does not prevent them from communicating with each other. Remember that perfect people do not exist, and you should not be afraid to make mistakes.
Step 2
Follow the rule "They knock out a wedge with a wedge." To get rid of fear, when communicating with girls, literally force yourself to talk to them by force, at first limiting yourself to two or three short phrases on some neutral topics. Your task is to make sure that there is nothing wrong with that, that the girls do not refuse to talk with you, and even more so do not laugh at you. Once you are convinced of this, it will be easier for you to have longer conversations. And there it is a stone's throw to courting a girl you like.
Step 3
Remember another wise rule, "Similar reaches for similar." Among the girls, there are also many shy and impressionable personalities who find it difficult to communicate with the opposite sex. You've probably noticed such quiet people who stay on the sidelines in companies, almost without talking to the guys. Try talking to one of these girls by talking to her under some plausible pretext. It is likely that she will instinctively feel a kindred spirit in you (the fairer sex usually has a well-developed intuition) and she herself will want to get to know you better. This will only do you good: you yourself will see that it is very easy to communicate with girls.
Step 4
Nowadays, it is very easy to maintain virtual communication in various forums and social networks. Chatting with girls more often can also help you overcome embarrassment. It will be easier to communicate in real life.
Step 5
If all else fails and communication with the fair sex is still fraught with big problems, you will have to seek help from a qualified psychologist. It is the specialist who will be able to find out what the reason for your insecurity and shyness is.
