It is difficult to communicate with a person and trust him, knowing that he is prone to lying. Even more difficult is the situation when the communication partner is openly lying and is not afraid of negative consequences. This behavior should be nipped in the bud.
Do not be silent
Lying is unpleasant and precludes further trusting relationships. The best thing to do in dealing with cheaters is to exclude them from your circle of friends. However, such a solution may not always be simple and possible. Often the closest people also lie, who have to forgive and believe that everything will work out.
Only one faith and endless forgiveness will not go far. You need to fight your partner's deceitful tendencies and pay attention to it. Many people who are inclined to lie do it out of excitement. They like to feel invulnerable and are carried away by the possible situation of persecution. They understand that they can be caught and try to lie much more believable.
However, if the deceptions pass one time, then another, the liars relax and believe that they are dealing with amateurs, for whom you can not strain yourself with a careful selection of versions. Lies are growing like a snowball, and this only makes the situation worse. Therefore, you can not be silent when you are frankly lying. Emphasize each time that you know the truth very well.
Make fun of the liar
Liars are usually very arrogant people who think they can get away with it. Realizing that they are blatantly lying to you, make fun of the lying person and pay attention to the fact that he does not really know how to lie.
First, such a reaction will embarrass the deceiver, because he expects at worst outrage, but not shame. A light, ironic attitude will also emphasize your indifference to his behavior, which can be an offensive and unpleasant revelation for him.
People who are inclined to lie like to receive a lot of attention to their person, and therefore indifference and laughter can turn out to be worse than contempt.
Publicly expose the deception
Find an opportunity to publicly expose the deceiving person's behavior. In the presence of influential people, this dramatic scene will look quite shameful and painful for him.
Just keep yourself calm and control your emotions. You should not say pretentious phrases about disappointment and make screams about how tired you are. Calmly bring facts that refute the false statement, turn around and leave your partner alone with his lies.
Create a response situation
Try lying to your partner several times in return. It is advisable to choose a topic that is important and serious enough for him. Sometimes a person, just finding himself in the place of another, begins to understand how ugly he behaved and caused pain.
After talking about the retaliatory lies, ask your partner if they are comfortable with the relationship.
