Originality attracts attention, makes it stand out in the crowd. Many people, especially young people, want to feel non-standard, somewhat unique and not like others. They try to be flamboyant and eccentric, while they are much more likely to be original by being themselves.
Instructions
Step 1
Try to be yourself. Naturally, original people are charismatic. They often attract attention to themselves, even if they do not strive for it. This is because for them this behavior is natural, and they may not even notice that no one else does this or dresses. And if they do, it doesn't matter to them.
Step 2
Learn to listen to your desires, thoughts. Many people are used to thinking in a standard way and have forgotten how to recognize their inner motives. The freer inwardly you are, the more original ideas you will have and the more natural you will behave. This is in contrast to people who strive to be original on purpose - they just copy someone who seems to them a bright personality.
Step 3
Try to implement the ideas that arise in you often, even if your loved ones do not take them seriously. It happens that seemingly absurd ideas, when implemented, turn out to be successful and even bring success and money. If you manage to implement interesting ideas a couple of times, your self-confidence will increase and your creativity will increase.
Step 4
Don't be dependent on the approval of others. People who are worried about what will be thought of them are often hesitant to be themselves, to do what they like, and to behave as they like. This means that they act according to the standards existing in society. It's not bad in itself, but original is so hard to get.
Step 5
Think about how you would become if you suddenly no longer needed to care about the opinions of others. Often people suppress their individuality under social pressure, when they are told that they are somehow different from the rest, and this is bad. Do not believe 100% of these words. In fact, people are drawn to bright and independent people, but on condition that they like themselves and radiate confidence.
Step 6
Do not try to chase fashion trends in clothes. Try to develop a sense of style. Choose things for yourself, focusing on whether they suit you personally or not, whether they emphasize your merits or vice versa. Try fancy combinations or eye-catching accessories.