The ability to communicate easily and naturally, to be an interesting conversationalist can be very helpful in life. A charming, cheerful person makes you want to meet him and start a more serious relationship.
Necessary
- - collections of anecdotes and funny stories;
- - good literature.
Instructions
Step 1
Others are drawn to cheerful optimists who can always support with a joke and a life-affirming story. Therefore, so that your interlocutors do not get bored while talking with you, charge people with positive emotions, they are much more pleasant than negative ones.
Step 2
To communicate in a relaxed and easy way, you need to enrich your vocabulary. To do this, read more good books by recognized classics and modern authors. Pay special attention to small pieces, because it is the art of storytelling that will help you to interest the interlocutors.
Step 3
Forget about your complexes and fear of communication. Most often, a person greatly exaggerates the existing (or mythical) shortcomings. Tell yourself: "I am a strong, interesting personality, a trendsetter and the soul of society!" If you believe this, you can convince others of this.
Step 4
Take a closer look at yourself, highlight all your most attractive features. Experiment with fashionable clothes and find your own individual style, because dullness is boring and uninteresting. Smile and laugh more often, a good mood is contagious to others and will make you feel good.
Step 5
Develop your horizons, take an interest in topics that are new to yourself, be aware of events in culture and politics. To keep the conversation going, you must be able to navigate the modern world with ease.
Step 6
Be kinder to the people around you, listen carefully to their stories to help with advice and participation. A person who not only speaks but also listens to the interlocutor will never seem boring and tedious.
Step 7
Remember what topics are interesting to this or that person, next time be sure to resume the conversation after studying this issue.
Step 8
Humor will help you out in any situation and will help you quickly find a common language with a new interlocutor. Read collections of anecdotes and funny stories from life. Memorize the stories you like, fill them with awkward pauses in the conversation.
