Pragmatism, love of order and organization are good qualities that help a lot in life. But do not go to extremes and become a boring bore, a person without imagination and a sense of humor.
Instructions
Step 1
Do not burden others with your problems. You should not tell them in detail about all your misfortunes. Otherwise, you will notice that you start to be avoided. Give fewer details to the interlocutor. He will certainly ask you what he wants to know in detail.
Step 2
Don't lose your sense of humor. Its absence is an integral sign of boringness. Don't take life one hundred percent seriously, don't take everything literally. Relax and smile at the joke, and do not dispute the facts that were mentioned in it.
Step 3
Don't impose your society. If you can't get the person to talk, they may just not want to talk to you at the moment. Do not insist and find another participant in the dialogue.
Step 4
Leave the small details alone. Know how to highlight the main thing, the main thing, leaving unimportant details alone. Otherwise, you may be considered a superficial pedant and, of course, a bore.
Step 5
Monitor people's reactions. Then you can understand that you are tired of you, even if you are not told it directly. Gradually, you will develop the habit of ending the conversation before the other person gets bored with it. Remember that everything needs a measure.
Step 6
Don't show your education and awareness. People around you can be annoyed if you interrupt and correct them. Sometimes it's better to be inaccurate than to ruin relationships with colleagues and friends. Don't be overconfident.
Step 7
Stop picking on loved ones, colleagues and friends. Understand that they have the right to decide on their own how to live, and your opinion is not always the most correct one.
Step 8
Learn to think big. Don't look at the situation from just one side. Put yourself in other people's shoes often. Expand your horizons, and with it your worldview. To do this, you can learn something new and travel.
Step 9
Develop your imagination. Read more fiction. Take up painting or handicrafts. Pay attention to your creativity and find a hobby that you love.
