All people want to be happy. Only for some unknown reason, not everyone succeeds. What is the secret of the lucky ones? What should be done for happiness to take place? Maybe the recipe for a happy life is simple, like everything ingenious.
Why is everything so unfair in life? For some, everything goes as planned, it happens even better. And you are always unlucky. Happiness passes by, and your job is uninteresting, and you get little money, and your boss treats you badly. This is because your education is poor. And your personal life does not add up, because you are not beautiful enough, smart, charming enough. What to do? To devote your whole life to fighting your own shortcomings? You can, of course, get another education, change jobs, earn even more money. Improve your appearance: go in for sports, have plastic surgery. But, unfortunately, this will not add to your happiness. The whole trouble is that no matter how you struggle with the external causes of your misfortunes, they will not decrease. This will not bring you happiness. It's not in external factors, but in yourself. It is known that happiness is a state of mind. And maybe you just don't allow yourself to be happy? And you don't notice the wonderful things that happen to you. Psychologists believe that the main reasons for the lack of happiness are dissatisfaction with your achievements and an inferiority complex. Of course, a person who is constantly dissatisfied with everything cannot feel happiness. The only way out of the vicious circle of unhappiness and troubles is to become happy. Stop berating yourself for imperfection. Learn to feel satisfied with the small accomplishments that have already happened in your life. If you learn to enjoy small things, great happiness will not keep you waiting. Do not worry if suddenly everything is not going the way you would like. Don't take it as a failure. It often happens that the universe provides you with a happy chance and a sin to fall into despondency and not take advantage of it. Better thank fate for the opportunity. Your happiness is always next to you, you just need to see and accept it. And if in your life happiness did not take place, it is only because you wanted it that way.
