So often you hear from somewhere: "He is not a man, he is a rag!" Any woman dreams of a man-protector, wants to feel like behind a stone wall. And in the end, you have to rush with him like a child and solve all his problems on his own.
Instructions
Step 1
No matter how much you inspire him that he should be a man, no matter how much you say that he is a rag, this is unlikely to change anything for the better. Rather, it can piss off and make him go away for good. In such cases, actions are more likely to help. When making any request to a man, most often there is no result, because we do not wait for his actions, but do everything on our own. And he got used to it, he likes it, and he absolutely does not want to interfere and change the state of affairs. Because of what he hears statements in his address that he is not a man at all. In this trivial situation, you should not take the initiative and solve all the problems. Let a man do it, and you can spur him on by responding to his requests in the same way as he performs his male duties.
Step 2
Often, after several years of life together, a man stops caring for himself, stubble appears, and carelessness in clothes appears. He may already have to be dragged into the shower and forced to use deodorant. He didn't give a damn about everything, he relaxed, because he knows that you will not run away from him, no matter how he looks. Jealousy can help. Try to make him jealous by returning from work a little later than usual, just visit a cafe with friends after work. Observe the reaction of your man, wake up the man in him.
Step 3
A man can be a coward, and that's just disgusting. It is clear that, having stumbled upon a crowd of drunk people going to seek adventure in the evening, it is better not to react to them, since there is nothing worse than aggressive and inadequate personalities. But if in broad daylight unreasonable insults are heard, it is not a sin for a man to give an offender in the eye. If a man cannot intercede, he is not interested in who and how offended you, then he is not a man at all. But if he was just scared, you can get out of the situation by persuading him to sign up either to a gym or to martial arts. It does not take much time, but it gives self-confidence and courage.
