"Yes, he is henpecked", "His wife keeps under her heel" - some of the most offensive phrases for a man. Timid and shy women, too spoiled by male devotion, often become tyrants, and men surrender under their pressure, agree on everything. From the outside, such men look like real henpecked, but it is in the power of each of them to prevent this.
Instructions
Step 1
Argue if you disagree with the woman's opinion. Sometimes girls take advantage of the fact that they are the weaker sex, and when making a decision, they try to evoke pity or even appease their young man with affection. In this case, the dispute is resolved in favor of the woman, and the man voluntarily concedes. This form of relationship will not make you henpecked if it comes to some small issues, for example, what color of curtains to buy in the room. But at the moment of a more serious decision, you must learn to defend your opinion. You should not switch to swearing and shouting. It is enough to think and give worthy arguments. If your half does not have them, she will yield in an argument.
Step 2
Take the initiative more often. Wives feed their husbands, choose their clothes and determine where to go on vacation. This formula of family relationships is not always bad, in many families the woman is the one who makes all the decisions. However, sometimes this leads to the fact that a man is no longer able to decide and choose something. Try to offer something more often, to be the initiator of ideas for vacation, shopping. If you do not remain silent, your opinion will be listened to.
Step 3
Try not to change your decision. You should not jump from one to the other if you have already spoken out on a situation earlier. Become the master of your words. Keep promises. If you talk a lot, but do nothing, very soon your words will no longer be taken seriously. To prevent this from happening, try with all your might to do what you promised.
Step 4
No matter how hard you try not to become henpecked, do not cross the line, do not become a tyrant. Remember that you are not the only one entitled to your own opinion. Listen to your wife, discuss possible scenarios together in order to make the right decision together. Make compromises sometimes to avoid quarrels. Look for a middle ground and your family life will be full of respect.
