We choose, we are chosen, as it often does not coincide … Alex Leslie strongly disagrees with the famous quote. His fourth book "How to wake up at a party, or the secrets of successful dating" clearly and clearly tells all suffering young men how to finally gain self-confidence and overcome fear of girls. The recognized guru of the pickup, or the art of seduction, claims that his technique will help to find the long-awaited happiness in his personal life. Waking up in someone else's bed after a first date is quite possible, if you follow the rather simple advice of Master Leslie.
Instructions
Step 1
First of all, understand what you really want. If there is no sincere interest in girls, the desire to understand them and get to know them better, you should not bother with such things, because seduction is much more complicated and multifaceted than just being intimate for one night. The seducer is not a commonplace womanizer. This is a subtle psychologist and creator. Creator of his own relationships with women. A person who strives for the main goal of seduction - to become a favorite of women and give them what they want.
Step 2
Further, understand that it is not women who choose. The strong chooses, the male chooses. And women love it. They like to obey power, because it is in the genes. Understand one more thing that will turn your hitherto calm world - there are no inaccessible women, there are wrong approaches to them.
Step 3
Learn to sell yourself. In other words, change yourself and learn to profitably present your strengths.
Step 4
Get used to the new dating structure, make the woman want you. With the help of preliminary SMS intelligence, build the image of yourself you need in the head of the girl you like. Don't be afraid to shock her. Your goal is to interest and intrigue. Women love riddles. Never call a girl first. Make her want to be the first to call you, this will significantly raise your profile, and with her, the chances of intimacy. Change the way you think about dating, turn everything upside down. Intrigue, surprise with everything you can. Fulfill all of the girl's fears and concerns, and she is almost guaranteed to fall in love with you.
Step 5
Never hang out in one place. Changing places, constant movement will not let the girl get bored and lose interest in you. The best way to relieve your dating fear is to spend an eight-hour date with the same woman, constantly talking and moving around town. During this time, you will be able to get to know the girl so much that you finally relax and develop your own approach.
Step 6
During a date, do not overuse alcohol, but rather refuse them altogether. In case of questions, come up with a legend. And the more incredible it is, the better.
Step 7
On a date, speak in a chest voice at the appropriate moments, women like it. Use every opportunity to accidentally touch the object of sympathy. Fortune-telling by hand is suitable here, and "I just removed the eyelash under the eye", and "Oh, you got your nose dirty."
Step 8
Be flexible, but always bend your line. Always behave confidently, even if your date doesn't go according to plan. Don't give the girl the opportunity to doubt her strength and confidence.
Step 9
Remember for the rest of your life: your goal is to sink into the soul of a girl. Take possession of her soul and heart. After that, everything else will also be available.
