“You can twist ropes out of him!” - this is how they usually say about a weak-willed, indecisive man with a gentle character. But sometimes there are cases that are completely paradoxical at first glance. A man with a steel, unbending will, a very domineering, born leader. Subordinates obey him implicitly. And at the same time, his wife or mistress twirls him, like that quiet henpecked. And those around you either shrug their shoulders in complete bewilderment: "There are miracles!", Or cautiously whisper: "Not otherwise, bewitched." So how can you help such a man? How to get rid of his love addiction?
Instructions
Step 1
Love addiction is the name of this phenomenon. It is very common in both men and women, but oddly enough, still relatively little has been studied. It sometimes acts so strongly and for a long time that some doctors compare it with drug addiction. A person sincerely thinks that he is passionately in love, but in fact he is sick.
Step 2
First of all, relatives and friends must clearly understand that it is a question of the disease! That a man caught in the network of such a fatal woman, who fell ill with love addiction, is no longer able to appreciate a modest, respectable woman who could become a wonderful wife and mother.
Step 3
He now constantly needs scenes on the verge of hysterics, violent quarrels ending in an equally violent "reconciliation" in bed, suffering, torment of jealousy. He will not be able to live a calm, measured life. He must be treated!
Step 4
At any cost, with whatever arguments, arguments, persuade the man to appear to be good specialists: psychologists and sex therapists. Since the treatment in such cases, as a rule, is complex - and should be carried out in two directions at once.
Step 5
Most psychologists are inclined to believe that people with low self-esteem fall into love addiction, the causes of which are rooted in an unhealthy home atmosphere and a lack of parental love during their childhood. Therefore, treatment should consist in self-hypnosis techniques that increase self-esteem, and, if necessary, in psychotherapy.
Step 6
Sex therapists, on the other hand, tend to see the cause in sexual addiction. Like, such a passion usually engulfs a man with a weak sexual "constitution", on whose way a woman suddenly met, who magically transformed her. Only with her does he feel like a full-fledged man, and therefore is terrified of losing her. Thus, in their opinion, the solution to the problem lies in the restoration of the full-fledged sexual function of a man, with medication and psychotherapeutic treatment.
