The relationship between a man and a woman begins with sympathy, which over time can develop into a great and strong love or end in the usual parting. Many will say that this is life, and nothing can be done about it. But … in such a situation, what should a still in love, but already abandoned partner do, how to forget a person who makes him suffer and worry?
Instructions
Step 1
Calm down and analyze the situation. A correct analysis of the current situation will help to sort out your emotions and feelings (this will allow you not to do stupid things under the "hot" hand). In addition, having understood yourself, it becomes easier to live on, you can see new ways out of such a morally difficult situation.
Step 2
Delete all contact information. You need to get rid of your ex-partner's phone number, delete all love messages from your mobile, throw away all joint photos, etc. Lack of contact information will not burden you with the desire to call or send a message, and discarded photos will not cause unwanted and painful memories.
Step 3
Accept what happened. If you accept the parting that happened as an established fact, without empty illusions and hopes that it is still possible to return, it becomes easier to find yourself “free” and live in the present, and not in the past.
Step 4
Find an exciting hobby or other interesting activity. It can be cross-stitching, photography courses, sports - the main thing is that the chosen hobby really likes and evokes positive emotions. And at the same time distracted from thoughts about a person with whom a relationship did not work out. The bottom line is that, having plunged into a new world for yourself, you simply do not want to think and remember something bad and sad, there is simply no time for this.
Step 5
Fall in love. The appearance of a person who will respond to your sympathy with his own is the best of all possible cures for mental pain. When new feelings appear, the old ones disappear into the past and become only memories …
