You also need to be able to swear … You can quarrel with a person so that, despite forgiveness, the former communication will no longer exist. The ability to maintain a harmonious relationship is a difficult science that you have to learn all your life.
You even need to be able to swear correctly, especially when it comes to conflicts between friends and relatives. These people are of great importance in the life of any person. If you do not follow your words in the heat of a quarrel, then you can say too much, and very much offend the person. And people of offense, of course, can forgive, but they will remember for a long time and there will be no previous communication. Therefore, during a conflict, you must adhere to the following principles.
- Don't go to extremes. One should not "make an elephant out of a fly." Calm down, perhaps you are exaggerating everything too much, and the problem is not worth the fight.
- Follow the words. Try to find your words. The more emotionally you hit your interlocutor, the more painful you will get in response. So a crack may appear in the relationship, which will only grow over time. Be tactful.
- Try to make constructive arguments. In a calm and even tone, express all your complaints to your partner, backing them up with arguments. Therefore, the showdown must be well thought out.
- Try to stay calm. Don't scream. The negative emotions that you put into your voice, like cold water, will pour over your interlocutor and cause a negative response.
Of course, in the heat of conflict, I want to answer the offender so that you have the last word. However, it may happen that this "word" can greatly ruin the whole relationship, and really turn out to be the last.
