What does every woman want in a relationship with a man? Respect, understanding and love. It is easy to achieve what you want if a woman knows how to behave with her companion. Only three simple, but very significant rules can change relationships and raise them to the proper level.
Instructions
Step 1
Rule 1. The purpose of the conversation is an important point for a man
What is the main mistake of women? They, as a rule, speak vaguely, at length … In other words, they come from afar! And this is quite understandable, because the female half is attracted more by the process itself. For a man, the conversation should be a reference point, a clearly formulated problem or goal. Do not start a dialogue with the phrase: "Let's talk about us …". The man, most likely, will not show interest in the conversation, or this “interest” will last for a few minutes. In the worst case, he will start arguing or postpone the conversation altogether. If you practice "vagueness" often, the man will stop taking his companion seriously and will lose interest.
Decision
The introduction to the conversation should be short and specific. A woman should immediately voice what she expects from the conversation and from her companion. Questions should be clear. For example: “Your opinion is important to me, dear. What do you think are the strengths and weaknesses of our relationship with you? " It is necessary to exclude all hints and "wagging" from the dialogue.
Step 2
Rule 2. Men think silently
Women and men are arranged differently. And this is a well-known fact. If women think aloud, ponder something, express their complaints and experiences, then men - on the contrary. They carry everything in themselves and rarely open this "suitcase". In addition, they are annoyed by the daily female monologues about problems that they can quite cope with on their own. Under such pressure, a partner can become nervous and hot-tempered, and the relationship will crack.
Decision
A woman should add a weighty spoonful of meaning to the barrel of gender misunderstanding. She must explain that “thinking out loud” is very important to her, that this way you can relieve tension and find a solution faster, and just emotional support is required from a man. But don't be intrusive. For such conversations, the appropriate time and desire of the companion are important.
Step 3
Rule 3. Men find it difficult to express feelings
Often women accuse their men of insensitivity, inability to express emotions. And that's mistake number three. A man in this situation can "fall into silence." Because from constant claims and reproaches, he will simply not be interested in maintaining a conversation with a woman, he will begin to "quietly suffer" from misunderstanding, will get angry, irritated, accuse his companion of being overly emotional and, in the end, will leave.
Decision
Constructive conversation is much more enjoyable and beneficial for both parties. What is the point of unleashing an avalanche of emotions on your partner and waiting for a calm, understanding answer? If a man is restrained, it does not mean that he is inhibited. Perhaps he needs time to express himself. Do not rush him in this.
