Throughout their conscious lives, people communicate with the opposite sex. However, not every woman can confidently assert that she really knows how to communicate with men. Obviously, difficulties arise when communicating with friends, and with colleagues, and with a loved one. But I would like something completely different, namely complete harmony. But you can still learn to communicate with men if you try to rethink some things and look at the communication process from a slightly different angle.
Instructions
Step 1
First of all, remember how you act if suddenly there are difficulties in communicating with any man? That's right, you begin to accuse him of all mortal sins, definitely believing that it is he who is to blame for the conflict or misunderstanding. It seems that the man is categorically wrong, try to analyze the situation from his point of view. Try to think about how your partner or friend views this situation and your behavior in general. After all, it's not at all a fact that it is a woman who is always right in everything.
Step 2
Try to express your admiration for his work, actions and appearance to the man as often as possible. Use the following principle: if you really want to say a “crooked” word to him, you better keep silent, and if the reason for praise is very small, then praise it better. Men are incredibly fond of compliments and cannot stand criticism. And nothing can be done about it, so you have to adjust. But in this way, you can gradually form in a man the confidence that he is the kindest, most skillful, talented, etc. Accordingly, he, considering himself as such from your filing, will also change his attitude towards you for the better. A self-confident person is always more capable of actions worthy of a man.
Step 3
Politeness in dealing with strangers has become an unwritten rule for us from childhood. But to throw out all the dissatisfaction and indignation in the face of relatives is much easier. Why not realize that your own man is much closer than the salesman from the store? Perhaps, over time, such an attitude will give rise to reciprocal positive changes on his part?
Step 4
Another rule that should always be remembered is quite traditional: before you explode, try to mentally sing a verse of a song or simply count to ten. Yes, it doesn't always work out. But sometimes such a simple method helps to stop potential grandiose conflicts in the bud.
