As a child, mom is the most important person in life. She comforts, cares, feeds, heals, does everything for the child. As adults, many expect the same support. But mothers, having raised their children, are not always ready to give themselves completely to their grown-up sons and daughters.
Instructions
Step 1
Without a mother, a person who gives warmth and care, one can end up not only if she dies. Many mothers, especially in recent years, are deliberately removed from the lives of adult children. They take care of themselves without being interested in sons and daughters. Such women believe that they have completely paid off with the children by raising them. And they are not going to support them in adulthood.
Step 2
If for some reason your mother is not around, and you are bored and looking for a "strong shoulder", ask your friends for help. Very often people are ready to provide moral and material support, one has only to ask about it. Tell your friends that you are lonely and want someone close to you. They will definitely support you and provide all possible help.
Step 3
Try to understand why it is difficult for you without your mom. What feelings and emotions do you lack. Often, discomfort without parents is experienced by those who are used to being a child, cannot get rid of their infantilism. It seems to such people that all their failures are because there is no mother nearby who will tell you what to do and how to do it. This is wrong. Wise advice is, of course, good. But it's high time to start thinking with your own head and take responsibility for your actions. As soon as the realization comes that you are an adult and independent, everything will start to work out without someone else's direction.
Step 4
If you miss your mother, the person to whom you are used to giving your warmth, find another object to care for. If you don't have children and a lover yet, get a pet. Better a cat or a dog. These animals are quite responsive and will gladly accept your affection. In addition, they will rejoice at your coming home and worry if they catch your bad mood. They are able to temporarily replace a loved one, give you time to get used to a new state.
