It is impossible to achieve high results in any aspect of human life or achieve a certain goal without concrete efforts. Have you begun to notice that with a strong desire to possess something or to win in something, you do not want to make any effort? This means that you need to change your thinking, to form a new outlook on your activities.
Necessary
Notepad, pen
Instructions
Step 1
Relive fond memories. This is a psychological trick that can "nullify" disappointments and provide you with confidence in your abilities. Remember the events that have developed in your favor. Remember the feeling of your victory. Analyze. Find the answer to the question, what prevents you from experiencing this in the present. Now you should translate these feelings and sensations into actions to achieve your real goal. Write down whatever comes to your mind as you try to describe your emotions and feelings. Draw conclusions so that you can re-read and return to the desired psychological mood at any time.
Step 2
Start treating mistakes differently. Take as a basis the statement: "Only the one who does nothing is not mistaken." You can also come up with your own saying on this topic. Many people are simply afraid of failure and become passive and lazy. Understand that activities that involve a lot of action can sometimes be buggy. But maybe they are needed for that, in order to correct them, exclude them in the future and achieve high results.
Step 3
Some foreign companies use the practice of financially rewarding their employees even for creative projects that have not been successful. This is a motivational support for the staff, stimulates the striving of each employee for original thinking and the creation of new interesting projects. Write down everything that you think about your attitude to errors, ways to fix them and further eliminate them. Perhaps the reason for the mistakes is a lack of skills that need to be developed. Think about the simplest and most realistic ways you can do this.
Step 4
Please yourself with the success of achieving intermediate goals on the way to the main one. Achieving the goal you set can take a fair amount of time and require a lot of energy. In such cases, in order to exclude all kinds of extremes, disappointments and pessimism, it is very important to break down your actions to achieve the set task into several stages. At the end of each stage, feel the victory, rejoice and praise yourself. This is the best incentive for further action, because you see and feel the result.
