Self-esteem has a profound effect on a person's life. Much depends on her. Rather, everything, up to relationships with other people. It's great if a person has it normal, and he treats everything adequately. But there are also overestimated and underestimated self-esteem. I will focus on the first.
First you need to determine whether you really have an overestimated self-esteem. There are several signs by which this can be easily determined: a person believes that he is always right and there is only his opinion and wrong; thinks that he is the smartest, and even that which is completely unusual for him; he never hears anyone and does not want to listen, he likes to talk more than to listen to the opinions of other people; he absolutely does not tolerate criticism in any form and will never believe that he is not right; thinks he is better than others, speaks in an arrogant tone. If at least one of the signs suits you, then it's time to sound the alarm and decide on global changes. The decision to change yourself is the first step.
Now the actions themselves, the first of which is to become a realist. Understand that you do not have to understand everything that is on earth. Try to find your strengths and weaknesses. Don't be discouraged that you can't master French.
Learn to respect other people and their opinions. Accept that there are a lot of smart people on the planet, not just you. You need to accept that there are those who understand what is incomprehensible to you.
In no case should you be offended by criticism from other people. After all, it can be useful: it helps to fight your shortcomings and makes you not stand still. Self-criticism should not be neglected either. She leads on the path to improvement and self-development.
Before starting any business, you need to analyze and understand whether you can complete the task. Don't be overconfident and think that you can handle everything that gets in your way without problems.
Accept your shortcomings with gratitude, rather than dismiss them. After all, life was created in order to correct them and strive for the best, to go forward!
In your activities, you need to take into account not only your satisfaction, but also the assessments of strangers. You can change. One has only to want it, and have a great desire. It's all a matter of time. All in your hands.
