An optimistic attitude is, first of all, the hope of success in all endeavors. There was not yet a person who, constantly complaining about his unenviable share, achieved something. But different circumstances knock the ground out from under our feet: a quarrel in the family or at work, the failure of an event, just the weather. But you need not just keep yourself in hand, but move forward. To maintain (or create) the right attitude, follow the advice of a psychologist.
Instructions
Step 1
In no case be angry with others and do not blame anyone for your troubles, including yourself. Imagine, think about your desires. Maybe it's time to go for gifts for yourself or loved ones, to finally fix or throw out the old chair, go somewhere? Present your desires in detail and color, as if they are right in front of you. Now go to their fulfillment.
Step 2
Do not think about financial difficulties, your own complexes and shortcomings. Don't consider yourself a failure or a failure because of these problems. If you work on yourself a little, well-being will come to you.
Step 3
Pay attention to your loved ones, walk with children, chat with friends.
Step 4
Dress nicely, smile and be irresistible. The inner will come through the outer.
Step 5
"I am the most charming and attractive …" - Does this phrase seem funny to you? Try saying something good about yourself out loud. Recognition of your own talents and self-love will confirm you in the idea that success is achievable.
