Some people, for various reasons, find themselves in a vacuum without communication. Old connections are lost, but new ones have not been created. In such a situation, you need to start looking for new friends, who are not so difficult to make.
Instructions
Step 1
Be open. Walking around the city with your head bowed, sitting in a cafe without looking up from your laptop, and rudely answering strangers' questions will leave you alone for a long time. Open up to meet new friends, get out of the house more often, tuned in to communicate with strangers.
Step 2
Get rid of stereotypes. You should not look for new friends, focusing on people from the past. So you try to protect yourself from letting something unusual into your life. Even if people are similar in appearance or have a similarity in character, you still cannot replace them with each other. Therefore, do not start from the idea of / u200b / u200bthe former friends, seeking to find new ones.
Step 3
Don't try to guess what the other person is thinking. Do not think out something for him. For example, in the middle of a conversation, decide that he doesn't like you, and he will never be friends with you. Surrender to communication and do not torment yourself with thoughts of failure. After all, having a sweet conversation without continuing the relationship will be another step towards improving your communication skills.
Step 4
Don't set yourself up for failure. Believe in yourself, your attractiveness, and the interest you represent to others. This is the only way you can attract new friends.
Step 5
Open up to new acquaintances. Don't be afraid to talk about yourself, share your feelings and emotions. If you do not tell this yourself, new acquaintances will never know that you, for example, are a passionate yoga fan and masterfully cook French dishes.
