You finally found the courage to ask her out, and she agreed. But what should you talk about on a date to avoid earning the label “desperately boring”?
Avoid the past
Unless you intend to completely lose your chances of continuing the relationship, forget about asking questions about her ex-partners. At the same time, when talking about yourself, these topics should be an absolute taboo.
Relatives
An absolutely safe topic of conversation is the topic of her brothers and sisters. Prefer not to ask about your parents. You may not know, perhaps this topic will evoke depressing memories in her. In contrast, siblings tend to be associated with positive emotions and, in addition, you seem to take an interest in her family.
Travels
Do you want to charm her? Ask about the beautiful places she has visited, her travels, her last vacation, or where she would like to visit in the future. This way, you will give her the opportunity to talk about her dreams and, in addition, you will be able to determine if you have common goals and experiences.
Food and drinks
While this famous theme is a bit of a cliché, it still works reliably. During lunch / dinner at a restaurant, it's more than natural to ask what food and drink she likes. Plus, if you find yourself preferring these kinds of dishes, you'll have another topic of conversation. The bonus is the fact that this is a completely safe topic that can't go wrong.
Education
Ask her about the university she studied at, why she chose this area, what people she met or lived in a hostel … The topic of education is practically inexhaustible. Among other things, you can create a warm atmosphere and offer your stories from your student days.
