Children are usually spontaneous, sincere, open to others. They do not wear masks and rarely pretend, and their pretense is immediately noticeable. With age, people often lose their sincerity and purity, begin to close themselves off from others and often do not let even the most dear and close people into their hearts. If you are faced with such a problem, then you can solve it using an interesting and very original method - learning Argentine tango.
Of course, in Argentine tango, contact with a partner is very important, since this dance involves improvisation. However, some people manage to select suitable movements without even opening up to their partner. This allows them to maintain their usual emotional distance, but, alas, it deprives them of the true "Argentine tango effect", does not allow them to experience the full depth and brightness of emotions available only to dancers who are able to open up to each other.
To look into the soul of a partner and understand how he feels the music and what emotions he is experiencing at the moment, you should learn to open yourself. The feelings that arise at the same time become almost tangible, and even those around them can sometimes appreciate their full depth. Ask the teachers at the Argentine tango training to perform a dance, and you will certainly notice it yourself. Such a dance gives people the opportunity to experience a special emotional outburst, which is often inaccessible and impossible in everyday life. By closing yourself off from your partner and trying to distance yourself from him, if not physically, then at least emotionally, you yourself will deprive yourself of these unique, vivid emotions.
The effect is clear and simple: the more you open up, the more you give to your partner, the more you will receive in return, the more vivid, strong your feelings will be, the more varied, useful and enjoyable the experience that Argentine tango will give you. Realizing that this is necessary first of all for yourself, you will learn to open up more easily in dance, and then in everyday life. The effect will not be instantaneous, but over time, both you and the people around you will be able to notice and appreciate it.
Undoubtedly, for a person who is accustomed to shutting himself off from everyone, achieving complete mutual understanding with a partner can be a severe test. In this case, you should start with the right attitude towards Argentine tango. Try to think of dance only as a game, something short, elusive, and quickly disappearing. Let the dance become for you another reality, separated from the usual life by a fine line. By changing your attitude towards Argentine tango, you will achieve the results you want faster, and they will not cost you emotional trauma at all. On the contrary, you will have a lot of fun.
Tango changes people, that's for sure. Over time, you will be able to experience these changes for yourself, understand and appreciate all their benefits and, finally, become a different person, changing your character the way you would like it.
