Fear arises from the self-preservation instinct when faced directly with danger. There are many ways to scare a person. It is important to remember for what purpose you are doing this.
Instructions
Step 1
A person is not afraid of anything as much as the unknown. This feeling also affects our behavior among other people. The nature of our movements on the street, at work, in a restaurant, in transport is largely determined by this fear, the fear of the unknown, which scares us.
Step 2
Fright is a sudden feeling of fear. It occurs when we are in danger. We test it while we hope to be saved. If you manage to somehow avoid this danger, the fear disappears.
When a person is frightened, he becomes irritable, cannot concentrate, gets nervous, fusses, etc.
Step 3
Such a person is easy to control. It can be used to your advantage - manipulated. It is important to remember that instilling fear in people is possible only if it corresponds to the direction of their needs and interests. These can be messages that cause negative emotions, messages that can induce the interlocutor to take a certain action.
Step 4
The main thing is not to forget to use the skills of effective interaction: the ability to control oneself; the ability to know the interlocutor; the ability to listen to the interlocutor; the ability to hear the interlocutor; the ability to own a word. Observe the interlocutor. Pay attention to his mannerisms, postures and facial expressions, to his gestures. Understanding the language of gestures and facial expressions will allow you to more accurately determine the position of the interlocutor, to feel his reaction to what you say.
Step 5
In order to scare a person, to influence him, you should often be in his comfortable zone. The comfort zone is determined by the behavior, goals, attitudes, stimuli, and ideas that a given person accepts, uses, and operates on. You should also treat people ritually, trying to avoid relationship intimacy and predicament.
Distracting attention is another effective way to manipulate the other person. This can throw the other person off balance. However, the content of such a message is also important, since only strong arguments are needed.
Step 6
Also, creating psychological barriers that affect human relationships can help scare, disarm. They can manifest themselves as - indifference, aggression, excessive nervous excitement, shyness, isolation, etc. The psychological barriers themselves, by their nature, depend on the personality characteristics of a person, on the communication situation and the message itself. Try to find the mistakes of your interlocutor, so that later you can use them for your own purposes. If there are none, then organize them yourself.
Step 7
You can understand whether you managed to scare a person by the following signs: tapping on the table with your fingers, clicking a handle cap, rubbing your palms, crossing your legs, straightening your clothes, scratching, etc. These are all typical gestures that indicate a state of mental imbalance. Such gestures show us a strong fear, anxiety that the interlocutor experiences in connection with the current situation.
Fright can affect a person, causing a sharp decrease in the organization of behavior, inhibition of actions, their slowing down to stupor. Alternatively, fear suppresses the processes of perception and thinking, disrupting the reception and processing of information, which can lead in the future to making a wrong decision.
