Ability is what every person has from birth. Determining what you are inclined to is very important if you want to find a job for your liking and do it so that work brings joy. Only the way psychologists assure you can you live a worthy and interesting life that will bring you real satisfaction.
Necessary
paper and pen
Instructions
Step 1
Take a piece of paper, sit in a quiet place where no one will disturb you, and try to relax. Consider what you do well. Write down even little things like throwing stones into the water. This will help you relax and remember other skills as well. Even the simplest skills can be important.
Step 2
Think about which profession your chosen actions are more suitable for. Write a profession or specialty next to each item on the list. Take a closer look if there are any specialties that would be encountered especially often. Already at this stage, people often manage to find several directions for deeper searches.
Step 3
Take a new sheet of paper and write on it what professions you would be interested in doing. It can be anything from a CEO of a large company to an itinerant acrobat. In front of each profession, write what exactly you like about it. It may well turn out that some things that attracted you in certain professions, which seemed unattainable due to circumstances, can be obtained in another way, doing some things from the first list.
Step 4
On the third sheet, write down what you would not like to do under any circumstances. Be honest, if you feel that leadership is not yours, then do not try to ignore it, hoping to "re-educate" yourself.
Step 5
Now place all three sheets of paper in front of you. The first shows the things that you love to do the most, and which you get, as well as professions that can easily become successful for you. On the second - the things that arouse your greatest interest, it is in them that you will achieve success, they will help you determine a niche in your specialization. The intersection of the first two sheets will give a worklist. The third sheet will help you delete from it all those activities that in the future will slow down your career or lead to disappointment in it, it is better to delegate them to someone else in order to reveal yourself in what you have the ability to do.
Step 6
Most likely, in the end, you ended up with several occupations or professions that are determined by your abilities. Before making your final choice, try to work out each of them for 2-4 weeks. You can get a job as an intern, it is useful to generally learn more about this. After this practice, doubts about what your inclinations are and what your soul lies in usually disappear by themselves.
