Many marriages end sadly, that is, in divorce. Why is this happening? Let's turn to the exact science of statistical research.
A ten-year term is the most difficult one. The first ten years are traditionally and statistically considered the most dangerous for a marriage.
If people managed to live together for 35 years, then the likelihood of divorce approaches zero. People get divorced for various reasons - housekeeping, financial issues, sex life.
And if they fail to solve problems in the first ten years of marriage, then parting awaits them. Sometimes a marriage can be saved by a conscious decision to live together for a few more years - usually the situation improves, and the couple receives congratulations at least at the silver wedding.
But there are spouses who do not need conscious decisions - they are together, because everything suits them. Probably they have a secret, many will think. Yes, he is, but he is not scary at all.
Friendship is the head
Canadian researchers, having called for unbiased numbers for help, found that the happiest marriages are based on friendship. Unexpectedly, but it is she who helps the spouses maintain warmth and mutual respect for decades. It doesn't matter what the root cause of marriage was - love or calculation, if a relationship develops into a real friendship, partners have every chance to keep them for decades.
What is friendship in marriage? This is mutual support and sincerity, sharing of worries and joys, fears and successes. The second important factor is the awareness of the need for a relationship, because people who have a couple are obviously much happier than singles, no matter what they say.
If you understand that marriage is an important part of life, then the desire to preserve it will become stronger. It is interesting that the happiness of the partners did not depend on the degree of the marriage's formality - people can simply cohabit with each other or have a document with a seal and a common surname, it does not matter.
Sleep together. It is very important that the spouses share the same bed. It is equally important that they fall asleep together. Sometimes owls and larks have a hard time matching each other, but that doesn't mean you don't have to try. The willingness to adapt to your soul mate, even in such a trifle, speaks volumes.
It is also important to sleep as close to each other as possible. In fact, the physical distance between partners indicates the degree of their spiritual closeness - they are proportional. If you sleep, hugging, or at least touching each other in a dream, this is ideal, which promises a long and happy friendly marriage.
