All couples in love are sure that their love is real and happy. Why, then, do so many couples break up before they last three years? In most cases, everyone has the same problems: I donated so much, but they did not appreciate it, my patience ran out!
The thing is that everyone is trying to strengthen the couple by virtue of their understanding of love. A standard example: a girl wants a bouquet as a gift, but her boyfriend considers it a useless waste. Therefore, she receives a set of expensive dishes as a gift, and a man receives an offended woman.
Therefore, in order to build a relationship, it is necessary to understand exactly what is needed for the happiness of the second half. Women and men expect different expressions of love from each other.
For example, a girl sees that a man is in trouble. Then she will show concern through help or advice. However, for the stronger sex, this is proof that they do not believe in his strength. Therefore, when a man is offered help, he may feel like a helpless weakling. And if his half constantly corrects his actions, then very soon he will think that he is not loved.
Rule one: don't give your boyfriend advice unless he asks for it. When a girl gets upset about a ruined manicure, the worst thing a man can do is say, "Don't go crazy over the bullshit, go and do it again." In the male sense, a woman must appreciate an effective solution to a problem. But for some reason she is unhappy and upset. And if this situation is repeated constantly, he feels unloved, unnecessary and rejected.
Rule two: attention and empathy are the best support for a woman in problem situations. Misunderstandings can provoke conflicts. And if a woman to relieve stress wants to talk, discuss the situation, find out why this happened, assume what this will all lead to, then a man in a stressful situation focuses on solving only one problem that has arisen at the moment.
So that the quarrel does not lead to a break, you need to remember about the peculiarities of each other's thinking. At the moment of resentment, women's emotions do not allow a man's logical arguments to break through. Therefore, it is advisable for the stronger sex to be patient and wait for the woman to speak out. And the fairer sex needs to learn how to control their emotions. Awareness of their emotions will save the couple from inappropriate actions.
The main rule for a couple in love should be: "I will make you happy." Then each of them will receive what he needs in the relationship. Girls who remake the chosen one to their liking will receive attention in response to their experiences. Since he will be sure that he is not reproached for problems due to inappropriateness to the image of a real man.
